From these men’s perspective, they can have it both ways — the privileges of identifying as straight and the pleasure and excitement of same-sex relationships on the side — without their identity being threatened.
A popular Sacramento County gay guide need to provide some encouragements and invitations for these visitors who are forced to reside closeted lives back home to come and explore to locate themselves in the possibilities for expression accessible in the region. Contained inside all gay guide to Sacramento County is a topographical map showing points of interest such as retail establishments.
In the second half of life, men often start to pay more attention to the internal realm to figure out what is within that sustains and inspires us. The roadmap, which was so clear during the first half, is more confusing and diffuse in the second half.